6 things ladies should keep away from their guys

6 things ladies should keep
away from their guys
Your experience with your Ex was bitter to say the
least. Your present boyfriend is all that he wasn’t.
And all you want do is go gaga over how he scores
over your ex. But hold on! Control your emotions,
let go off your past and live in the present.
1. Don’t make him feel insecure: You may want to
impress him by saying it was you who ditched your Ex.
Or about how good your best friend is in two-timing.
Mind you, he may not take it too kindly. For one, he
would think this is his future too!
2. Your best friend’s personal life: First things first —
do not share your best friend’s phone number, email
address with your boyfriend. Also, if your BFF has
shared all her secrets with you, best keep it hidden
from your boyfriend. For one, he may not be interested.
Two, he may start showing her sympathy fuelling
jealousy. Who knows it might be a point of conflict
between the two of you. You might also start feeling
insecure.
3. Your passwords: Never do this even if you are
married. Both of you are entitled to some space in the
relationship. Sharing email passwords and ATM pins is
a strict no-no. You might want to bring in the
transparency issue here. Yet, it’s strictly not advisable.
Imagine your boyfriend reading up your online chat
conversations to beat boredom and discovers you had
actually ditched him to be at a party with your BFF! It
would be disastrous.
4. Do not discuss your salary details: Unless you are
married and are looking at joint investments for the
family, it’s best not to boast about your fat paycheck.
It’s okay to tell him you get a decent remuneration. But
not the exact details. But same applies to you too.
Your boyfriend too is under no obligation to disclose
his salary details.
5. Girls love to tell guys about their periods: Yuck! You
may think sharing your female bodily changes with him
may bring you two closer. However, that’s really not the
case. Some guys may be shy themselves and may find
it awkward to accept what you are talking about in this
stage of the relationship itself.
6. Let bygones be bygones: Your experience with
your Ex was bitter to say the least. Your present
boyfriend is all that he wasn’t. And all you want do is
go gaga over how he scores over your ex. But hold on!
Control your emotions, let go off your past and live in
the present. It’s wise not to share any details of your
past relationship with your present one. You may regret
it later.
When in love, it’s natural to get carried away and tell
him all about yourself. However, besides other reasons,
one good reason for you to not share some things with
him is to let him accept you the way you are. Also, let
there be some part of you which he doesn’t know, right?